“Men always want to be a woman’s first love and women always want to be a man’s last romance.” This sounds so romantic. And this is the love which a woman wants or expects from her partner. It is always said that it is very difficult to understand a woman and if you do, then you are sagacious. But, is it so difficult to understand a woman? A woman only wants love from her partner. No exaggerated demands. But is it true that she only wants love? No, her wants do not end up only in love. She expects much more from her partner.
1. LOVE HER AS A GIRLFRIEND ALWAYS
You must be remembering the days of your romance. When you used to date, bought gifts for your girlfriend, caressed her in your arms, gave random kisses, worked hand in hand and could not stop missing her. What happens to that love and affection after marriage? This is the question a woman often asks to herself while cutting vegetables or pressing the clothes. This is the love a woman wants to retain in her relationship. She wants to be loved like a girlfriend by her husband forever. Although, love and affection are foundations of any relationship and are necessary to maintain it.
2. DEEP TALKS ARE REQUIRED SOMETIMES
When you are hanging out with your spouse, sipping coffee, the on table discussions are generally about kids, work, household stuff etc. But is this the conversation she always wants? Having deep conversations is very critical between couples on a regular basis. A woman wants to convey her inner thoughts and feelings to her partner. Speaking about her thoughts and feelings makes her feel more reliable and close to her partner.
3. A GOOD LISTENER
“A woman was telling an incident to her husband. She told the way she felt about the situation and asked for his opinion. Instead of answering her question he just nodded.” This annoyed her. Ignorance annoys a woman. Listening to your wife makes you more involved and helps you understand her better. Just support her by giving her your opinion. You can apprehend her mindset by just doing the ‘listening’ part well.
4. QUALITY TIME
Everyone is busy with their hectic schedule. But, if you spare some quality time with your wife, it will reinforce your relationship and might also benefit you in the bedroom. Time is the most precious thing one can give to someone and is always yearned by a woman.
5. PRIORITISE HER
“It’s all about priority”, often heard from a woman’s mouth. A woman requires priority in a man’s life. It makes them feel confident about their relationship. They want to be treated as a princess by their man. It makes them even happier being seen as the only woman with whom her man wants to be with.
6. UNDERSTANDING AND ACCEPTANCE
No relationship can sustain without ‘Understanding and acceptance.’ She might not be in a good mood sometimes reasoning her menstrual cycle. She might have mood swings due to hormonal fluctuations. At this time she needs her husband to understand that her mood swings are real and accept her. Instead of arguing with her regarding the mood, help her to make it up. Make her feel that you are there for her no matter what.
7. SHARING HOUSEHOLD RESPONSIBILITIES
“A man who cares will always share.” Sharing household responsibilities with your spouse adds to her comfort ability. Also, a man who does household work tops the list of a woman’s admiration. In addition to this it makes your wife believe in you.
Everyone needs time for themselves too. After entertaining the family, she also needs her private space, where she can enjoy with her friends and catch up on her favorite things. After all, if she is not fulfilled she can’t make others feel the same.
Appreciation paves way for motivation. Randomly telling your wife how beautiful she looks or how delicious the dinner was, fills her heart with happiness. She will automatically get motivated to do more to make you happy. Thus it brings out the best version of herself.
10. DON’T BE ABUSIVE
Healthy relationships involve consideration for the other person. Being abusive not only weakens the bond but also breaks the other person emotionally. A woman never wants her husband to frighten her. She wants to feel secured with her man. Rather be scared.
11. STOP FIBBING HER
Men partying with their friends escape the thought of their wife waiting at the diner. Thereafter, coming with a lie to cover their deeds. We generally lie to avoid further arguments. But lying every time builds a pessimistic personality. It becomes difficult for a woman to trust her husband after hearing so many lies. A man’s ingrained idea of lying brings out the detective in every woman. Moreover, your action feeds trust to develop in the relationship.
12. RESPECT HER
“Never above you. Never below you. Always beside you.” It is the way to build a relationship. Respect is as important as love in relationships. Going for a candle light dinner today and threatening her tomorrow doesn’t make sense of loving her. Respect is an expression for love. It makes your spouse feel worthy for you. There is no harm in having a different opinion. Respect means accepting someone the way they are. And this is all a woman wants from her husband.
13. SATISFY HER EMOTIONAL NEEDS
Satisfaction is a saturated mode of human, which is always temporary. Satisfying the sexual needs of your partner makes you both feel content and fulfilled. Physical intimacy also adds in strengthening the bond and making a woman feel ‘more belonged’ to a man. Every woman yearns for a romantic husband to keep up the spark in the bond.
Loyalty is the devotion you have towards your partner. It cannot be measured but can be felt by your actions. A woman devotes her everything when it comes to love and expects the same from her partner. It is the strongest medicine to prolong the lifespan of a bond. It makes you trustworthy for a woman.
15. A FRIEND
It is said that perfect relationships initiated from good friendship. A husband should be your friend before being a lover or partner. A woman wants her spouse to be always present with her in both good and bad circumstances just like a good friend. A good friend will understand you better than anyone. And being understanding is the key to a successful relationship. Remember to never kill your friendship in a relationship!